For many young people in the cadets, Remembrance Sunday is one of the most important dates in the calendar. It's an opportunity to come together with their communities, honour those who have served and sacrificed, and take part in a tradition that has been observed for generations.
If your child has recently joined the cadets, this might be their first experience of a Remembrance parade. And while they're probably busy thinking about polishing their boots and making sure their uniform is just right, you might be wondering what the day actually involves.
We've put together this guide to explain what Remembrance means for cadets, what to expect on the day and how to get everything ready in plenty of time.
What Is Remembrance and Why Do We Observe It?
Every November, people across the UK come together to remember those who have lost their lives in conflict, as well as recognising the service and sacrifice of those who have served in the Armed Forces.
There are two important dates to be aware of:
Remembrance Sunday takes place on the second Sunday in November. In 2026, this falls on Sunday 8 November. Communities across the country hold services, parades and wreath-laying ceremonies at local war memorials.
Armistice Day takes place on 11 November, marking the anniversary of the armistice that ended fighting on the Western Front during the First World War in 1918. At 11am, people across the country observe a two-minute silence.
The familiar red poppy has become a symbol of Remembrance, inspired by the flowers that grew on the battlefields of the First World War.
But Remembrance isn't only about looking back. It's also an opportunity for younger generations to understand the importance of service, sacrifice, peace and community.
Why Do Cadets Take Part in Remembrance Parades?
For cadets, Remembrance is about much more than putting on a smart uniform.
It's an opportunity to demonstrate some of the values they learn throughout their cadet experience, including respect, responsibility, teamwork and self-discipline.
Many Army Cadets, RAF Air Cadets, Sea Cadets and Combined Cadet Force contingents take part in local Remembrance events, often alongside veterans, serving personnel, community organisations and members of the public.
For some, this may involve marching in a parade. Others might form part of a guard of honour, lay a wreath, carry a standard or support a local service.
It's also an opportunity to learn about the history behind the occasion and the people being remembered.
And for parents watching from the sidelines, seeing their child take part in something so meaningful can be a particularly proud moment.
What Happens at a Cadet Remembrance Parade?
Every parade is slightly different, depending on the local community, the cadet unit and the arrangements made by the organisers.
However, a typical Remembrance Sunday event might include:
- Forming up: Cadets gather at an agreed location, usually ahead of the service, where their instructors check attendance and uniform.
- The parade: Cadets may march through the local area alongside other organisations before arriving at a church, memorial or designated gathering place.
- The service of Remembrance: This often includes readings, prayers, hymns or other moments of reflection.
- The two-minute silence: Usually observed at 11am, this is one of the most significant parts of the occasion.
- Wreath laying: Representatives from local organisations may lay poppy wreaths at the memorial.
- Dismissal: Following the service, cadets return to their meeting point or are dismissed according to their unit's arrangements.
Your child's cadet leaders will explain where they need to be, what time to arrive and what will be expected of them.
If it's their first parade, encourage them to ask questions beforehand. Nobody expects a new cadet to know everything straight away!
How Can Parents Help Their Cadet Prepare?
A little preparation can make a big difference, especially if your child is taking part in their first parade.
Check the Timings and Meeting Point
Remembrance events often involve an early start, so make sure you know exactly where your child needs to be and when they should arrive. Check the collection arrangements too, particularly if the parade finishes somewhere different.
Give the Uniform a Proper Once-Over
Don't leave the uniform check until the night before. Make sure everything fits, is clean and is in good condition. If your child has had a growth spurt since their last formal parade, now's the time to find out!
Make Sure Their Footwear Is Comfortable
Depending on the event, cadets may spend a considerable amount of time standing or marching. Properly fitting footwear is essential, and new shoes or boots should ideally be worn in before the day.
Be Ready for the British Weather
November isn't exactly famous for sunshine. Cold mornings, rain and wind are all possibilities, so check with your child's unit about permitted layers, gloves and any other weather-related kit.
Talk About What the Occasion Means
If your child is taking part for the first time, it's worth having a conversation about why we observe Remembrance and what the different parts of the ceremony represent.
It can help them understand the significance of their role and why the occasion is treated with such respect.
Your Remembrance Parade Kit Checklist
Whether your child is taking part in their first Remembrance parade or has attended several before, it's always worth checking their kit in advance.
Here's a simple checklist to help get everything ready.
1. Beret and Headdress
Check that your child's beret or other required headdress fits correctly, is clean and is properly shaped.
Different cadet forces and units have their own uniform requirements, so make sure they're wearing the correct headdress for the occasion.
2. Cap Badges
It's often the smaller details that are easiest to overlook!
Check that the correct cap badge is fitted securely and that any fastenings are in good condition.
If your child is unsure which badge they need, their unit will be able to advise.
3. Stable Belts
If a stable belt forms part of your child's authorised parade uniform, check that it's the correct type, fits comfortably and is looking smart.
Remember that stable belts aren't required for every cadet or every parade, so always follow your unit's instructions.
4. Parade Footwear
Smart, well-maintained footwear is an important part of parade dress.
Depending on your child's cadet force and the uniform they've been instructed to wear, this could mean parade shoes or boots.
Check that their footwear still fits comfortably, is clean and is ready for the occasion. If they've outgrown their current pair, ordering early gives them time to get used to the replacement.
5. Boot Polish and Care Essentials
A good polish can make all the difference when it comes to getting parade footwear looking its best.
Check you've got the basics ready, including suitable polish, brushes and polishing cloths.
And if your child is still learning how to get that parade-ready shine, this is the perfect opportunity for a little practice.
6. Uniform and Finishing Touches
Finally, give the rest of the uniform a thorough check.
Are shirts and trousers clean and pressed? Are belts, badges and other authorised accessories in place? Does everything still fit?
Always follow the dress instructions provided by your child's cadet unit, as requirements can vary depending on the force, unit and event.
Our top tip: Lay everything out a few days before the parade rather than discovering a missing item at 9pm on Saturday evening!
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What Should Parents Expect on the Day?
If you're attending to watch your child take part, it's worth arriving early and finding out where spectators are welcome to stand.
Remembrance services can attract large crowds, particularly around town centres and war memorials, so allow plenty of time for parking and getting into position.
During the service, follow the organisers' guidance and respect moments of silence and reflection.
And, of course, don't forget to dress warmly yourself. You might not be marching, but standing outside on a November morning can still get pretty chilly!
For many parents, it's a memorable occasion and a chance to see the confidence, discipline and sense of community their child is developing through cadets.
A Moment to Remember
For cadets, taking part in Remembrance is a responsibility and a privilege.
It's a chance to stand alongside their community, honour the sacrifices made by previous generations and reflect on the values of service and respect that remain important today.
Whether it's your child's first parade or they're already an experienced cadet, being prepared means they can concentrate on what really matters: taking part in the occasion with confidence and pride.
At Cadet Kit Shop, we're here to help with the practical side of getting ready, from berets and badges to parade footwear and uniform essentials.
Please remember that uniform requirements vary between cadet forces and individual units. Always check with your child's cadet leaders before purchasing parade kit.
